Not because they are forced into by their husbands. Or just got into it for unequal reasons or the wrong reasons. After such a binge experience , sometimes we need some time to regain our senses. The last kind of couples were the only ones i observed who seemed truly happy. In roughly half of the cases, the woman is in it because the man can’t perform to her satisfaction (small penis mainly). I couldn’t have put it better myself, thanks for the swingers proverb.
Is swinging a male-driven and dominated endeavor?
We have a happy and stable marriage and i am almost certain this would be something we would enjoy. Same with her and me. Finally, if any sexual play takes place that involves others must be discussed after the fact, best the day after so that both you and her have had time to reflect on event.